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You are not clear on what you want.
Perhaps you’ve tricked yourself into believing the lies “I am so confused" or “I don’t know what I want.”
As a result, year after year, life stays the same.
You don't have a shortage of dreams and are super clear on what you want.
However, you are overwhelmed and paralyzed by the process of making your dreams come true. Year after year, you wonder, "Why haven't I done it yet?"
Either way, you’re discouraged.
You secretly ask yourself:
What’s wrong with me?
And you’ve come to the conclusion,
I’m not cut out for this whole “turning dreams into reality” thing.
I’m begging you to STOP!
New dreams require a new YOU!
if I know anything to be true, it’s these 2 things:
#1 — You have a dream that wants to be created, experienced or expressed.
#2-- If you can dream it, you can create it.
the real question is:
Are you going to continue to settle with excuses, spinning in confusion and be exactly where you are 30 days from now?
OR . . .
Are you willing to become the kind of woman who makes her dreams come true?
Take a moment and think about what could be different in 30 days.
Here is what I have seen my clients create:
An extra 5K.
Lost 8 pounds.
A new job.
A new product for her business.
Paid off a 1K in debt.
While these results may not seem super sexy, these were 30-day goals were steps towards these women's bigger dream.
This is what can happen when you:
& TAKE INSPIRED ACTION.
When you have a framework for dream making, a lot is possible in 30 days.
Sounds easy, right?
If turning dreams into reality were easy, everyone would be living their dream life.
So, why don’t more people actually follow through on their dreams?
It asks you to step into the unknown.
And, there are no guarantees.
That, m’friend is very scary business to the brain.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I want you to amaze yourself with what’s possible, but I don’t want to sugarcoat what it takes.
If a dream is worth pursuing, it’s worth the challenges that will and must occur in order for you to become a dream maker.
I’m not going to lie and tell you that it’s easy.
I’m not going to try and persuade you that all you need to do is create a vision board and everything will fall into your lap.
And, I’m certainly not going to sell you a “Get rich quick” scheme.
I want to sell you on believing in and creating your dreams.
30 Days at a Time
The Dream Atelier is for any woman who’s ready to stop talking about her dreams and start creating them.
In this LIVE workshop, I will teach you the elegant mindset and framework that is required for dream making.
And, when you follow this exact process,
you will have created something that doesn’t yet exist
. . . in 30 days!
We value our partners, parents, kids and bosses dreams more than our own.
We think our dreams are frivolous.
We fear that we’re being selfish.
We live in a world of guilt about wanting more for ourselves.
We’ve convinced ourselves that our dreams are impossible.
We have even gone as far as to convince ourselves that we are confused about what our dream is, because deep down, we know that if we pretend to not know, we can continue life as it is, keeping the peace, and not ruffling any feathers, at an attempt to have full control of our life and also avoiding the feeling of failure that *might* happen and we’d rather do anything than be labeled THAT.
But, I want you to ask yourself a very serious question:
. . . living in confusion about what you want?
. . . feeling like your life is passing by and nothing is changing?
. . . seeing others create the dream that you have going on Facebook and Instagram and feeling envy?
. . . waking up with big plans for the day , yet accomplishing very little?
. . . sabotaging yourself over and over and wondering, “What’s wrong with me?”
. . . feeling unproductive and building the belief that you never complete things?
. . . hiding out in your own life out of fear of what others will think?
. . . consuming a lot of information and doing nothing with it?
. . . putting your dreams on the backburner year after year?
In coaching women for almost a decade, and as a woman who didn’t make her dreams a priority for far too long, I know that not listening to your dreams leads to a life where you wonder, “Is this all there is?”
However, there is another option:
In fact, one in eight middle-age women in the United States has depression.
Quite frankly, it doesn’t surprise me.
We sit at home watching Netflix and eating Doritos straight out the bag; and then, we complain that we don’t have enough time.
We hide out in our own lives, afraid of what others will think if we show up and be absolutely brilliant.
We are cranky with our kids and spouses because we don’t take a moment for ourselves.
We are resentful when we go on Facebook or Instagram and see other people doing the very thing we’ve been secretly wanting to do for years.
We are depleting our souls, and my friend, this is costing you more than just money. It’s costing you your own life.
I don’t tell you this to scare you.
I tell you this because having a dream can breath life back into your existence.
30 days at a time.
Your dream of . . .
Organizing your office.
Improving your marriage.
Going back to school.
Singing in a band.
Designing the collection.
Starting your business.
Wearing a size 6 dress.
Creating a youtube channel.
In a year?
But, you know what….. creating your dreams is not the best part.
dream itself; it’s who you must become in the process.
order to create something new.
That’s why you’re still here reading this page.
And, don’t get me wrong,
I want that for you too!
. . . values her ideas.
. . . makes decisions. Quickly and with confidence.
. . . creates a plan.
. . . consistently carves out time in her schedule for her dream.
. . . shows up for what she want.
. . . is resilient and resourceful.
. . . is unstoppable.
That’s what happens when you become the kind of woman who shows up for her dreams.
You don’t feel like you’re dreams are worth investing in.
You’re not willing to be uncomfortable
You have no interest in personal growth
You are more committed to your past and excuses than your future and dreams.
You are ready to make yourself proud
You’re just as excited about who you’ll become than you are the dream itself
You are willing to invest your time and energy into your dreams
You want to elevate your mindset
You want to tap into your creativity
You’re ready to commit to your dream, once and for all.
that this program is exactly what you’ve been looking for.
The quick answer: We underestimate ourselves and what we’re capable of.
By giving you 30 days, I’m asking your mind to stop lollygagging around in confusion and paralysis.
I’m asking you to become decisive, think in different ways, take action and give up your excuses at a faster speed.
It will be a challenge, but I have full confidence that you can do it.
Scratch that -- WE can do it.
I mean, let’s get real. If I gave you six months, that’s how long it would take.
ON SUNDAY DECEMBER 30th 2018
- The #1 way to go from confusion to clarity
- The only 3 things you need to manage to turn your dreams into reality
- The 5 rules to that determine the effectiveness of your goals
No more excuses of “there’s not enough time” or “one day.” With this simple process, you’ll have a roadmap for your dream.
It’s time to leave your excuses of “there’s not enough time” behind and begin to show up in a whole new way.
- How to create a clear plan so you can leisurely hustle your way to you success
- A simple way to break down a dream into doable steps
- Watch Tonya demonstrate LIVE her behind the scenes of a dream mapping session
- How to create rules for your dream map that guarantees you show up for it
During this workshop, you’ll learn Tonya’s favorite techniques for creating emotions so that you can fuel your dream into reality.
- A 2-step emotional process for feeling like a hot mess and a powerful force all at the same (and never letting your emotional state stop you).
- Why being all zen and namaste may be delaying your dreams (and the emotions that (you may be surprised to discover) will fuel them
- How a jacket helped Barbara Corcoran become a millionaire (and how it can help you create your dream too)
- The power of being committed to your future (because your dreams don’t live in your past)
- How a visit into your future will fast track your dreams
- Why dreams require new standards that are higher than your heels
- Why practicing new thinking is as important as your action list
- How your favorite playlist (yes that one!) may be slowing down your dreams (and what to do about it)
However, you don’t have to be thrown off your game or give up at the first bump (or twenty) in the road).
- The 3 G’s of dream making that every woman needs
- How singing in an elevator will help you make your dream come true
- Why perfectionism will break your soul and bank account and how to overcome it
- How to set up rules for yourself and your dream so that you stop the self-sabotage and finally create that thing you’ve been wanting to create
the entire 30 days
YOU’LL BE ATTENDING A LIVE WEEKLY CLASS
Each week, I’ll host a live 60 minute video class with real life examples, as well as tips and tricks to implement what you're learning.
YOU’LL BE ASKED TO SHOW UP FOR YOUR DREAM . . . DAILY!
The Dream Atelier has weekly and daily check-in tools designed to help you stay the path to create your dream.
YOU’LL BE PART OF A DARING COMMUNITY OF DREAMING LADIES.
Many women struggle with creating their dream because they’re not surrounded by the right people.
The Dream Atelier 30-day community will be your place to celebrate your steps (big and small) and inspire each other by example.
YOU’LL HAVE A STYLISH WORKBOOK DESIGNED FOR MAPPING OUT YOUR DREAM, STEP BY STEP.
At FKL, we firmly believe that style does matter, and we want you to create your dream artfully!
The Dream Atelier workbook, filled with exercises and steps, will be your guide throughout our 30 days together.
YOU’LL RECEIVE DREAMY SURPRISES ALONG THE WAY TO KEEP YOU INSPIRED AND SUPPORTED.
One of FKL’s core values is delighting our customers. One of the ways we like to do this is through surprising you along the way to keep our journey to our dreams fun and supportive.
I have some surprises up my sleeves for the amazing dreamers in this community.
This is a LIVE 30-day workshop
where you’ll play towards your
dream one thought, feeling, and
action at a time.
we make our futures bigger than our pasts.
This live 30 day workshop is going to challenge you in the most amazing ways, because here’s the deal:
you must become someone you’ve never been
and do things you’ve never done.
So, you will have to let go of the stories of how . . .
. . . I never follow through.
. . . I am too busy.
. . . I don’t know how.
. . . I am not smart, rich or skinny enough.
. . . The only way that I can find joy is if I get my dream.
. . . Because ____(something from the past)____ happened, I am screwed.
. . . It’s never worked before, so it never will.
. . . It’s just not possible.
In The Dream Atelier, you will have a Master Life Coach in your corner ensuring that you overcome these beliefs and take action towards your dream.
From Day One, you’ll be asked to raise your own personal standards of how you show up in the world.
And you will not be alone.
Are you still interested?
FROM LADIES WHO ENROLL
In The Dream Atelier, I want to work with women:
- Who are committed to their dreams.
- Who are excited about who they must become to create their dreams.
Since this is a LIVE workshop, it's not for the woman wants to "test it out" or who's not ready to commit.
Because of this, once you enroll, no refunds or credits will be given.
FROM ME AND THE FKL TEAM
In The Dream Atelier, I promise to match the same level of commitment level that I am requiring you to bring to the table.
I'm also bringing in a seasoned member of the FKL team who will be helping me help you stay accountable.
I'll be sharing my own personal examples and how I've overcome obstacles (and I have a lot of them).
If you’re thinking, “Yes, Tonya! I’m SO ready,” (even if you’re scared) I have three simple words for you:
Who is this workshop for?
This program is for any woman who has a dream (even if you’re not clear on what it is) and is ready to learn and apply a process of how to turn your ideas into reality.
How is this workshop delivered?
- I will host a LIVE video class each week that you can join from your computer or mobile device.
- You will receive a copy of The Dream Atelier workbook delivered to your doorstep.
- You will have access to the online members area where all class material, recordings and calendar will be made available.
- There will be a private Facebook community for the 30-days (this is not required)
- You will receive emails throughout the program as reminders and inspiration.
If you join me for LIVE coaching, there will be an additional group call each week where I'll be coaching you through the process.
I’m super busy. How much time will I need to dedicate to the workshop?
Before I answer this, I must share something...
Drawing from my many years of coaching women, "I don't have enough time" has become a huge excuse (and block) from creating our dreams. So I'd like to start by saying that the only thing that's required of you is 100% commitment. Not "X" number of hours.
And, as we get started in the live workshop, one of the first things that we will do together is to "create" the time to ensure follow thru on what will be needed to create your dream. It's part of the magic of my framework
However, in making sure that I'm not dodging this question, here is what I can tell you to expect time wise over the 30 day period (as a bare minimum):
- You will be expected to attend four Live Classes; they are are 60 minutes long.
- You will be expected to complete your weekly action items on your own time (which will be derived from your dream plan and from the Weekly Class content). The time allocated here can vary from woman to woman depending on what your specific dream and commitment is.
- You will be expected to do a self-check in daily (morning is best) with The Dream Atelier Journaling + Daily Planning Exercise (minimum of 15 minutes of uninterrupted time)
- You will be expected to submit a weekly accountability form to FKL so you and I and the team can be sure you're on track. (minimum of 15 minutes of uninterrupted time)
In a nutshell: your time is precious and you have a lot of responsibilities. It is my promise to support you in being the best version of you while creating your dream. This is what French Kissing Life is about!
What is the exact timeline of the 30 day workshop?
And in the spirit of French Kissing the Holiday Season, I've arranged for the Atelier *officially* to start thereafter:
- Week 0 --Sunday Dec 30 - Sat Jan 5
- Week 1 -- Sunday Jan 6 - Sat Jan 12 (live class on Mon @ 9am PT/12pm ET )
- Week 2 -- Sunday Jan 13 - Sat Jan 19 (live class on Mon @ 4pm PT/7pm ET )
- Week 3 -- Sunday Jan 20 - Sat Jan 26 (live class on Mon @ 9am PT/12pm ET )
- Week 4 -- Sunday Jan 27 - Sat Feb 2 (live class on Mon @ 4pm PT/7pm ET )
So, mark your calendar!
Ugh. I have conflicts with the live class dates/times. What can I do?
My video classes will all be recorded and you can watch them on demand.
So, just set aside 60 minutes in your calendar to watch and take action in the same week.
Do I get lifetime access to this Workshop?
My intention is that once you've worked with me live for 30 days, you will be able to repeat this framework over and over to create other dreams in your life.
note: At the present moment, we are not sure when will re-open enrollment, however when we do if you would like to re-enroll like you were brand new because you know that you do best with the added support, I would love for you to join us.
What is the difference : "LIVE WORKSHOP" and "LIVE WORKSHOP + LIVE COACHING"
Some women may choose to have supplemental live coaching to support them in their creation over the 30 day period. Its a personal decision and only you know what you need in order to achieve your dreams.
The coaching will be in a group coaching setting for 60 minutes a week on Wednesdays (during the same weeks as the live class at the same time. )
- Only the ladies who enroll with supplemental coaching will be invited to attend the Wednesday coaching calls / call
- My Live Monday classes will not provide personalized coaching
- I will not be coaching in the community.
Therefore, if you know that you want me to coach you or if you want to listen in and hear me coach other women thru their blocks, I suggest that you add on the supplemental coaching to the workshop.
If you are still not sure which to choose, please email the FKL Concierge team at email@example.com and they will be happy to assist you in your decision.
What will you be celebrating?
How will you feel?
What will you have created?
What will you be celebrating?
Do you want to be the woman who . . .
. . . is still talking about the same dream year after year?
. . . feels disappointed in herself...again?
. . . watches everyone else show up and create their dreams?
. . . has a lot of regrets?
. . . feels proud of herself?
. . . knows how to make things happen?
. . . doesn’t delay her joy until one day?
. . . knows how to think and live on purpose?
. . . knows how to make her dreams come true?
I thought so!
I’ll see you inside The Dream Atelier.